Jul 8, 2005

Friendship Test

What a strange world! One day we are happy and another day we are sad! In our life time we meet people and become friend. Everyone call themselves friend! But there is no written description of friend and friendship. That's why friendship is beautiful. It is like art. You build a relationship. You are painting a great picture. But you should be careful. A black spot may ruin your entire picture. So who are true friends? How can we test them? Is it really important to test them? The answer is up to you! We need to trust someone and because people do not want to take that responsibility maybe because of their own benefits, they may abuse your trust. So at the end you will find yourself alone! Then I think it will be good to examine our friends to see if we can trust them or not although the results may be upsetting. I usually test my friends in my own way and look at the results. Unfortunately some of them may fail. Not because they are bad. That isn't the reason. Because they are looking after something else. They have found their benefit some where else. So they can't be honest with you anymore.

But let me remind you that a true friend does not exchange you easily with his own benefits.

A great fellow told me that a true friend is like a star, always above your head, he is shining for you above your head even in cloudy days, even when you do not look after it.